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There is no better way to convey your wedding day point of view than with a color story. That's my opinion anyway and I'm not changing it! I am a color enthusiast after all and it is what guides me throughout every single day. Colors are my "spirit guides" so to speak. And some people, simply do not care. I will never leave my house wearing beige, peach or pale yellow. It does not exist in my closet. Pink and green, teal and magenta, burgundy and forest... oh yes! But that's me, and not you. I'm also not a "pick a swatch" type of gal either. I'm a pain in the butt to my Painters. I have to mix two swatches to create my own colors. I like those "in between" shades and not the ones straight out of the Crayola box. If you are like me, coming up with a color palette is going to be a fun, yet a very tough road simply because we care so much!


Your wedding venue may be a great place to start in choosing your wedding color palette. Is your venue chic and modern and just screaming for a neutral palette? Perhaps it's a lovely Art Nouveau hotel with jade and gold painted ceilings. Is it a woodland setting that calls for emeralds and sages? Maybe it's a rustic barn and those boho warm tones seem to work just right.


Second, you might want to consider the season. An obvious choice for an autumn weddings are warm, earthy tones or jewel tones. Fuscias and spring greens for well, spring and so forth. And what about the flowers and foliage that are in season during your event? Hellebore is my favorite flower on the planet, but I would be hard-pressed to find them in summer.


You can look at your own personal style for your inspiration. What colors are important to you and what do you wear well? What about items you cherish? You might find inspiration from vintage floral china, a victorian locket or that green velvet couch you want to rent for your reception.


Try using this guideline when setting your wedding color palette. Choose:

--one main color

--one or two secondary colors

--one neutral

--one metal


About the only mistake you can make is choosing too many intense colors with the same value. Meaning, you have no hierarchy in your palette and the colors all have the same intensity and they fight with one another. They can be overwhelming to view as one's eye does not know where to look first. That's what I call the "kitchen sink" palette. It is very difficult for Designers to work with a palette where every color is as strong as the next. One or even two very strong colors can work as long as the rest of your colors are neutral. Using my guideline above will help build an organic flow and hierarchy to your color palette.


One last consideration is to apply your colors in a thoughtful and appropriate manner. Trying to force your color theory into every aspect of your event can have less-than-attractive results. I had a client recently whose main color was a deep, dark rusty red. She chose my Swinging on the Moon design and insisted that the night sky be the deep dark rust color. To me, the vintage couple sitting on the moon looked as though a nuclear holocaust had happened. In that case, she could have tied her color in another way-- through the envelopes, wax seal or vintage stamps.


So just have fun with your colors! It can be overwhelming at first, but you got this! Check out a little color inspiration below.



vintage botanical wedding invitations

Flat lay shot by @peterson.design.photo + Invitations by Gilded Swan Paperie



Third row: @nikknguyenphoto

Fourth row: @damorewedo



Congratulations go to Alexa and Justin on their recent wedding! The fabulous affair was set against a lush Connecticut mansion overlooking the Long Island Sound. The theme was, well, vintage of course!


The mansion, ‘Eolia’ named for the island home of the Greek god of winds, was built in 1906 and purchased by Edward and Mary Harkness in 1907. Alexa and Justin enjoyed the manicured lawns and formal gardens which meandered throughout the grounds. Their Great Gatbsy-inspired affair was steeped in deep history, bejeweled gowns and lots of bubbly champagne!


For their stationery, the happy couple chose my "Nocturne" design. This 1920's invitation design featured a celestial star pattern surrounding a logo mark which housed an A and J. It was imprinted with shimmery gold metallic foil against obsidian paper stock. The couple chose a complimentary ivory and metallic gold foil for their set of vow books. I was able to incorporate their favorite engagment photo on the back of the save the date as well.


Check out the full gallery below and Elizabeth Grant at: @elizabethgrantphotography



Alexis and Justin shot by @elizabethgrantphotography





Who wears iridescent purple shoes (with lightning bolts) and leopard print boots on their wedding day? The most colorful and fabulous Grooms on the planet of course! And how exactly does that work with an overall Art Nouveau theme? It just does!


Having a strong design point of view on your wedding day really makes a profound statement! I usually can only fit in a few purely custom design suites each year, so when Los Angeles - based Wedding Planner, Holly Gray called, I came running! The ceremony took place at the historic Ebell Theatre in Los Angeles. The Ebell has a long history of showcasing performing artists from around the globe for 100 years. It's truly a stunning venue to marry your partner and honor your new life together.


For their stationery, Ben and Rob knew they wanted shades of purple and pink, fruity elements and an Art Nouveau vibe. The fruit serves as a nod to the Dutch Masters fine art they love, and the Art Nouveau era is one of their favorite time periods. Their wedding stationery culminated in shades of lavender, purple and blush. The ruby pomegranates were adorned with gold metallic foil details which really popped! The sable borders kept the design grounded.


When working on your wedding palette, it is very important to utilize a hierarchy of color. Try using this guideline when setting your wedding color palette. Choose:

--one main color (sometimes two can be ok)

--one or two secondary colors

--one neutral

--one metal


Many couples send me their wedding palettes with three or four powerful colors, all with the same value , which means having the same intensity. The result will be a power struggle for color domination and can end up looking very messy and your guest's won't know where to focus.


One of my favorite features of the wedding is the photo booth installation that Victoria and Christopher Smith painted and constructed. Their company, the Paper Moon Shoppe builds the most extravagant and lovely backdrops around! They took the details of my invitation suite and hand painted the details evoking a colorful era from long ago. It's a draw dropper!


A big thank you goes to Wedding Planner, Holly Gray for putting this lovely affair together. She handpicks vendors that work together cohesively and makes sure they all create a technicolor and visually stunning event... and on time and on budget!


Check out the full gallery below and Aurelia's Instagram at: @damorewedo

Congratulations to Ronb and Ben on their recent wedding!



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Ben + Rob by @damorewedo


Venue/Catering/F&B: @ebellevents Planner: @anythingbutgrayevents Photographer: @damorewedo

Videographer: @leiraproductions Band: @LAallstars Drag Performer: @jonniereinhart Photo Booth/Installations: @papermoonshoppe Cake: @nicolebakescakes Stationery: @gildedswanpaperie Calligraphy: @sophscriptco Beauty Team: @despinascandalis & lio_ramirez Floral Design: @flowersbyladybuggs Suits: @kleinepsteinparker Cape & Floral Jacket: @julieharrisdesigns Silk Flowers: @customfabricflowers Rings: @sebkajewelry Linens:@luxe_linen Transportation: @riztransportation



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